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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there is a big age gap between your daughters.  Your daughter should be around girls that are her peers where she can be herself.

Not saying that the girls can't be friends, but sounds like there is too much togetherness.  It isn't healthy for the other mother to be comparing the girls who are at different maturity levels.  Can you distance yourself more and help your daughter make some new friends?

Good luck to you and your daughter.[/quote]

yes. you are right. my daughter mostly plays with her age group kids.
but me and my friend meet during our kids swim lessons or generally as neighbors or during evening walks.
These are the times when this stuff happens. How ever rare these meetings are, my friend brings up this topic and comments atleast once.

Also most of my daughter's friends families are moving to a newer community 20 or 30 minutes drive from where we live (cheaper and bigger homes).
out of 6 girls her age who used to play together, 4 kids families bought new homes and moved. so my daughter goes and plays with rest of them if they are not on holiday travels etc.

Thank you for responding and your advice.[/quote]

I'm an new poster.  Don't schedule swim lessons together again.  Don't go on evening walks anymore.  Make up excuses why your kids can't spend time together, and why you can't spend time with her.  I'm dealing with a similar situation.  Believe me, just keep saying no, we are busy.  You will be much happier.[/quote]

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