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[quote=Anonymous]PP here. Do you think she has a true desire to change for the better? I ask because as bizarre as it may sound, she may be getting a payoff from being in this situation in the form of a lot of attention (positive or negative) a lot of "oh poor mom, what can we do for you!", and the sense that there are still people in the big bad world who feel sorry for her. I had a friend in this kind of situation for years. All she'd do was talk about how tough things were but she wasn't willing to change anything, only complain and then thank me for being such a wonderful friend she was very lucky to have and who gave her good advice (she never took). [/quote]
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