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[quote=Anonymous]OP, some of us just didn't get two parents in the conventional sense.... My father was marginally involved in my life until age 10 and then left for good. I saw him very briefly once or twice before he died, but for all intents and purposes, I didn't have a father beyond his contributing his DNA. It's sad, but it's what it is. You can't make your mom love you or miss you, and frankly, I don't know why you'd want to expose your young son to the possibility she'd reject you both. One reason I don't mention my father to my own kids is because they don't need the stress of wondering whether I'd abandon them the way he did me. When they're older, of course, I'll have to explain a little further. But I think a mother who doesn't reach out to her daughter over 10 years is sending a pretty clear message, and you should just move on.[/quote]
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