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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, it is a true story.  I opened my bank account statement and saw $2800 taken out to our mortgage company.  He didn't even ask me.  He just did it!  I am so mad!  He asked whether he would pay the mortgage late or pay for my car!  It has always been like this, him making me choose between things - once it was a car vs. dental work.  [b]Why should I have to choose between things I need.[/b]  [/quote]

Do you have any idea how spoiled and self-centered this sounds?  You have to choose because you're a fucking grown-up, and sometimes grownups have to make choices.  Jesus Christ.

I don't think this has anything to do w/ SAHM status, by the way - your household has to pay for expenses.  One party can't hoard money and expect the other to just figure out a way to pay for everything she needs.  It's a collaborative effort, no matter who is earning the money.  [/quote]

OP expressed the fear he mightjust take off.  With her philosophy is what is his is [i]ours[/i] and what is mine is [i]mine[/i], can't say I'd blame him.

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