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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again -
I will indeed honor what they've asked. But I remain feeling justified in thinking they are being unfair, and will end up needing the help. It is very different with their generation, as my generation relied on the family during these times, and they think they can do it all.

I do know it is their choice, I just do not understand it one bit. [/quote]

It was different when they were local and you could come and go at short intervals. Being there 24-7 after the birth of a child is a lot for some people. They may rather you not come right away if you want to stay for awhile.

It is a different ball game when you live far away.  If you are not used to living at a distance from family members, spend some time thinking about what their experience is like (and yours) both hosting and traveling, what is involved, etc.

Be pleasant and understanding. Make them think, "Gosh, we kind of wish Mom stayed longer" rather than "wow, we are asking mom to stay at a hotel from now on!"[/quote]

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