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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your father is a narcissistic child and your mother is his enabler totally codependent on him. Hacking your email? No. No. No. [b]Ignore the people who are down on you and your accomplishments. It is great that you have made a happy life for yourself. Stop letting them shit all over it. Definitely separate from them as best as you can and get some psychotherapy to help with boundaries. They are abusive, self centered people who are only interested in using you[/b][/b] when it's convenient to their story line (e.g:the endless drama with your Aunt). I agree that you ought to extricate yourself before they start demanding that you support them financially. [/quote Completely agree with this poster. My college roomate had a similar situation. After she had her first child, she cut all contact with her [b]toxic family. [/b] She formed healthy relationships with other people. That was five years ago. Her family still hasn't changed, but she does associate with other extended family at non-holiday get togethers. She says it was the most empowering thing she ever did. Sometimes you just have to walk away.[/quote]
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