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[quote=Anonymous]Your parents are narcissists. They don't love your sisters and not you. They just are using your sisters to supply their narcissistic needs and using you to dump their bad feelings on.

This isn't your fault. There isn't anything you can do about it, except find a place of peace and shelter for yourself.  Other people are going to call you names for saying bad things about your parents. Ignore them. They don't understand how abusive and destructive a relationship with a narcissist can be. They truly can't fathom a parent like your parents.

Therapy would help you if you find a therapist who understands narcissists. Therapists who don't get it will do more harm than good.

Some self-help reading would also help. Try these books (If you just read the first 3, you will help yourself a lot. They're not hard reading. ):

Toxic Parents
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Parents-Overcoming-Hurtful-Reclaiming/dp/0553381407/ref=pd_sim_b_1

The Everything Guide to Narcissistic Personality Disorder
http://www.amazon.com/Everything-Guide-Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder/dp/1440528810/ref=sr_1_14?ie=UTF8&qid=1371300036&sr=8-14&keywords=narcissism

The Myth of Self-Esteem
http://www.amazon.com/The-Myth-Self-esteem-Rational-Behavior/dp/1591023548/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&qid=1371300216&sr=8-10&keywords=albert+ellis

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists
http://www.amazon.com/The-Wizard-Other-Narcissists-Relationship/dp/0972072837/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1371299903&sr=8-2&keywords=narcissism

Will I Ever Be Good Enough?
http://www.amazon.com/Will-Ever-Good-Enough-Narcissistic/dp/1439129436/ref=sr_1_12?ie=UTF8&qid=1371299944&sr=8-12&keywords=narcissism

Children of the Self-Absorbed
http://www.amazon.com/Children-Self-Absorbed-Grown-Ups-Getting-Narcissistic/dp/1572245611/ref=pd_rhf_ee_s_cp_1_Q90P?ie=UTF8&refRID=0257SBBF24ET674NQ90P

Emotional Blackmail
http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Blackmail-People-Obligation-Manipulate/dp/0060928972/ref=sr_1_45?ie=UTF8&qid=1371300117&sr=8-45&keywords=narcissism

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