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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your problem is not with your MIL, it is with your marriage. Your DH clearly see your marriage as a three some with his mom. She is still his "Mom" so her wishes come first. You are just the third wheel. These are very important life moments with you your DH, and baby. But how it is playing out is U+Me & baby makes 3. And then you. I know this sounds very harsh, but what your MIL is doing is so far over the line that I do not see this being resolved without significant marriage counselling. Even then, DH will probably say that you all need to get along, which means, do what his mom says. A friend had the same problem--she got a divorce. She knew that there was no breaking up the happy couple -- him and his mother. It is a deep psychological problem that does not lend itself to an easy fix. It takes effort to understand that it was not [b]her[/b], it is [b]him[/b]. And that it can make you very unhappy and destroy the marriage.[/quote]
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