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[quote=Anonymous]OP, don't mean to be a downer, but I think you are trying to salvage something that's unsalvageable. Absent depression, etc. (which sounds like a possiblity), or willingness on the part of your husband to address these issues (counseling, individual therapy, etc.), this situation is unsustainable. It's either cut ties now, or after DH grinds you into the ground for another year or more. Why are you trying to save this (or him) - at least, while there appears to be no effort from him to remedy your circumstances? Also, the courts do not grant alimony to those who are voluntarily unemployed. Unless your husband is truly unemployable (and nothing about 9-months of sitting around without looking for a job proves that), he's not going to get alimony, or at the least, it would be on a very temporary basis.[/quote]
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