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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We are already in counseling. He doesnt want to help around the house because I don't show enough gratitude for the things he does do (daycare pickups, grocery shopping, taking out trash). He says no matter what he does I am not satisfied. I do think part of the problem is that I don't respect him because he spends all his time on Reddit or TV, unless he is helping me with DD or something I asked him to do. But he does't do things of his own accord. I picked the wrong person but now this is what I'm working with so tryjng to figure out how to improve things.[/quote] I respect your willingness to work on it even though he's not ideal. I can see he might have emotional baggage about appreciation and chores. Not saying I agree with it, but I can see it. But what's his excuse for not finding work?[/quote]
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