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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am sick of people holding back April and May babies, too.  It is getting out of control.  Do you realize they will be 19 when they are in HS?

To the PP above, just because the kids were sitting still now, doesn't mean they were in September.

It just seems at first Aug/Sept babies were hold backs, but now there are April and May and June holdbacks.  Where does it end?  And seriously, they will be 19 in HS?!!  I know of girls and boys.  Do you think it is a good idea to have a 19 old in HS?  Think of the implications there.  [/quote]

+1000 on this. This makes me angry too. When I clicked on this thread, I assumed it was a discussion of "border" babies - end of summer/September babies. But we're talking MAY? In the mathematical MIDDLE of the pack of the kids? And you held this kid back? People like you really give this "red shirting" decision a bad name. [/quote]

But why does this make you angry?  Whats it to you?  You have no idea what the reasons are, and you never will because another child's development is not your business.[/quote]

NP here -- others can be angry about your decision to redshirt your child.  Why?  Because my son has a September birthday.  Unless he seems to be totally unprepared, we plan to send him to school on time.  He's not very large, but reasonably developed socially and physically.  He doesn't need gigantic 7-year-olds in his class.  They should be in first grade.[/quote]

Ah, the myth of the "gigantic" redshirted child.  Have you noticed the huge range of sizes of same-age children?  My guess is that the gigantic child in your DC's class was not red shirted.

I think all of you are angry because you think someone is getting away with something and you feel competitive about your children.  What you don't realize is that it is detrimental to your children to have classmates who are unprepared to be there.  You don't even have an elementary school child so you have no idea what happens to a classroom with such a child.[/quote]

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