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[quote=Anonymous]Example 1: My friend's husband had an affair (their marriage was headed to divorce anyway but he began his affair while she was in the hospital). His affair partner was separated from her husband, had a very low income as a part-time nanny, was infertile and loved children. I think she saw my friend's husband as a golden ticket--high income, she'd get to be an insta-mom to 2 kids, etc. They are living together and she absolutely wants this to be a long term, serious thing. Example 2: My friend had an affair with an engaged man (he was doing a temporary assignment in her office) and hooked up with a different man in a very long-term committed relationship (he later dumped the girlfriend, dated my friend and cheated on her too). Honestly, I think she's just lonely and desperate and I've seen numerous examples of morally questionable behavior from her. She felt badly about both affairs--but not enough to stop them. Example 3: My husband once had a fling with someone. Ignoring the reasons why he did it which are their own story, the woman involved had serious mental issues (professional diagnoses, not just me speculating here). She certainly had no shame about the fact that he was married (she joked about being a mistress on her facebook page). I don't really know what her expectations were--they lived on opposite sides of the country and got together twice and neither had any plans to move, but she had built it into a very significant relationship in her head. She was angry at me when it looked like we were getting divorced (wtf?) and devastated when he broke it off with her.[/quote]
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