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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your problem is not your FIL. It is your DH. HE does not support you. He probably does not think his father is an ass. Hell, the man raised him and he probably agrees with much of what his father does and says.

It may help to get a male counselor to help break it down to your DH, from what you've shared, I don't think he is going to make any changes that are initiated solely by you. [/quote]

People on the board throw this around ..... "he does not support you."  Blah blah.

The OP want effectively wants DH to take a stand against HIS parents moving here and has said she would consider divorcing him.  DH is a person too and, God forbid, maybe he does not agree with his DW.  Maybe he thinks she is blowing things out of proportion.  Supporting your spouse does not mean 100% agreement on EVERY position they take. Couples disagree.  Seems to me that is they see a counselor, it should not be so the counselor can convince him that OP is "right."  It would be so that both parties can get their views heard on a path towards compromise. [/quote]

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