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[quote=Anonymous]When I was younger, it was 100% physical attraction all the way.

Now in my forties, while I still think physical attraction is important, even more important to me is WHO the person really is.
Personality traits, career status, financial success, etc.

For instance, a hot guy who was my age and working at Burger King would turn me off. Even more so, if he was unemployed.

A guy who treated others like shit and was cocky and arrogant would never get a second date w/me.

There is something about a man who has a good career and makes enough money where he can live comfortably that turns me on.

I reconnected w/this guy on Facebook who I was SO in love w/in high school.
This guy was not only hot, he was on the Varsity football team, was Homecoming Prince for 2 yrs straight and was voted "Best Looking" in our class Senior yearbook. He was very cocky and stuck~up then, but because he was so hot...he could be that way then and girls still wanted him.

27 yrs later we met for coffee.
He's still cute (though not hot), but he doesn't have a job now and told me he hasn't worked for the past 3 1/2 yrs. He spends his day selling drugs to his neighbors and selling stuff on E~bay.

Now his cockiness is a huge turn off plus the way his life has turned out.

Old age gives you wisdom and a better perspective.[/quote]

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