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Thank you all for your comments. I discussed this topic with dh the first year of our marriage and maybe mentioned it during the second year.  But he still never remembers. We'll be married 10 years soon. [b]He does have add [/b]and nothing in his life is very organized. He doesn't remember trash days, bill due dates, etc.

I know he loves me and he never forgets my birthday or our wedding anniversary...just this date.

I also don't show sad emotions in front of anyone generally, so he won't see me very upset or crying.  I guess this doesn't help.

I might try to talk with him one more time. [/quote]

As someone with ADD, I have found that I move through emotions much quicker and that includes sadness and grief.  I don't put as much emotional energy into things like death anniversaries because litterally there are so many other things that will flood through our mind on a daily basis that the anniversary just get's lost in a sea of relentless information and ideas.[/quote]

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