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[quote=Anonymous]I honestly don't understand the concept of "his property" once you're married. You are a family. What's mine is yours and what's yours is mine....right? It really freaks me out to read these things. OP made more $ for years, presumably contributing more to the household than her DH. She put her own money into paying off the mortgage on one of the condos. Now she is staying home to raise their child. There should be no mine and yours in this situation. It's alarming that your DH does not accurately recall that you paid off half of one of his condos. Very, very alarming. My office mate was in a similar situation with his ex in a divorce proceeding. He put $20K down on a refi on a property she owned before marriage so they would get a lower rate. When they divorced 15 years later, she claimed the entire asset was hers, and he was granted no % of the equity on it. He could even show the withdrawal from his bank at time of refinance, but she claimed he used that $$ to buy furniture for them. She never put him on the title, and he never thought they'd divorce.[/quote]
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