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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Separate checking and joint savings. Over time, we just sort of divvied up the bills based on our incomes. He makes more, so he pays more, and we both have plenty left over at the end of the month. Then we just just dump large chunks into savings whenever. I like having my own checking acct because it gives me a sense of control and autonomy. Also, my parents were always overdrawing their checking acct because nobody knew what the other was doing, and it stressed me out. Finally, I know I would micromanage my husband's spending if I knew exactly what he was doing, and I want him to feel like he has autonomy too. As long as we keep saving at a good rate, what I don't know can't hurt me.[/quote] Same here. Separate everything, and we share expenses relative to our incomes.[/quote]
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