Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Money and Finances
Reply to "DH out of work but kids still in daycare"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]I think you need to sit down together and come up with a budget for this theoretical plan. Make your expectations clear. It's one thing to ask that you cut back on eating out or move to a smaller apartment, but another thing entirely to ask you to add an unreasonably-long commute to your routine or to cut out emergency savings, college savings and retirement savings. Those are non-negotiable. Be open to an in-between solution. What if he can find a nanny share or half-day program for the kids and he cares for them the other half. Give him a number. "I am willig to contribute this much to child care. You need to be earning the difference or you need to find reputable child care that costs less.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
