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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DO NOT TAKE WHAT YOU READ ON DCUM AS AN INDICATION OF THE IMPOSSIBILITY OF RAISING KIDS IN THIS AREA. You are not poor and I pray your sibling and his wife had an iron-clad will as well as guardianship papers. The fact that both of your nephew's parents WANTED YOU as his guardian speaks volumes. Hope you have a good lawyer...[b]and think long and hard about giving the grands visitation IN SWITZERLAND[/b]...you would likely not see the child again. If they think they are rich ..let them come here Good Luck.[/quote] As someone with family in contentious custody fight, I would really fight to have visits in the US or supervised with you in Switzerland only. I agree that the family is grieving, but they are strangers. I think you should agree to make regular trips with your kid to Switzerland, so he can get to know his mother's side. It never hurts to have as many people as possible love your child. You are not poor. I do think you might consider using some of the money to put yourself in the best possible location for him if you need to. It sounds like you might need to refi your leased property. Go to a financial planner and come up with a plan. Get advisers you trust. These outcomes will last a lifetime. Good luck and best wishes![/quote]
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