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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP. First of all, kudos on all that savings. That's amazing. Secondly, seriously, you would keep the inheritance in your name only? If I were your husband, I would consider that *grounds* for divorce, not insurance in case of divorce! My DH and I are in our early 40's, married less than a year, and if he got an inheritance even 1% of that and wanted to keep it in his name only, I'd feel appalled and betrayed. We're a *family*. It's family money! But you guys have two teenagers and (presumably) over a decade of marriage behind you. Even if things had been rocky at times, won't this make things even rockier between you two, as if you are planning divorce rather than planning a future together? Think of it this way: at most, you might lose $65K of the inheritance to your DH. But if you don't share it, aren't you setting a precedent which could cost you much more? [/quote]
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