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[quote=Anonymous]I admire the strength of the PP who stayed with her husband who cheated for two years, but I could never do that, no matter how remorseful my husband was. OP, I can't see forgiving or forgetting a year-long affair. Your DH is not your DH. He's soon to be your ex. Let him go. A marriage without trust is just miserable. Your child will forgive you for splitting up. He made a mistake, and it cost him your love and your marriage. You will have to have a relationship with him forever because of your child, but you don't have to have a marriage. Leave him now, while your child is young, and start over. A year-long affair is not a one-night stand or a fling. It's an ongoing relationship outside of a committed relationship, a betrayal of the deepest sort. I could not forgive such a betrayal. I would never do such a thing to a person I loved and promised to cherish forever, no matter what the reason. If I was really miserable in my marriage, and felt the urge to cheat, I'd get out first, and then start a new relationship. Cheating means your DH wanted you and the other relationship at the same time, and he did this over and over again, keeping it from you, in denial, I suppose. Let it go, OP. Find a lawyer, and start moving toward the inevitable exit. Who knows, you might be better exes, than you are spouses. Good luck to you, OP. [/quote]
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