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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can’t fix this. [b]If she is a hoarder then keeping her hoard is the most important thing in the world to her. [/b]She would give up her life to keep it. She would sacrifice your life to keep it! It’s an obsessive disorder with a low recovery rate. Your choices are either a. Let her continue her hoarding and die in it or b. Do regular well check and if the hoard breaks city codes call APS and Code Enforcement. They will either immediately remove her or if she appears capable give her a short timeline to remove things. She doesn’t need to know that you called. [/quote] I think the bolded is really it. Sounds like you have experience and for that, I’m so sorry. From the outside, it’s so freaking hard to understand. A friend, who is clearly a saint on earth, has cleared (to reasonable in hoarding terms) all but one room, so I don’t think there’s anything APS would do. So I guess we’re at choice A. What a sad end.[/quote]
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