Reply to How to deal with resentment

Forum Index » Infants, Toddlers, & Preschoolers

Reply to "How to deal with resentment "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi, I’m wondering how people deal the resentment that starts to build up towards others after births?

My husband has a hard time with follow through. He always has before I even got pregnant so that’s why I would give him small tasks that weren’t the most important. Plus he works full time with a physically and mentally draining job while I stay home and care for our baby, house, and animals. Now I feel like crap for asking for help. Because he never remembers and if he does remember I end up doing it anyways and then he feels guilty for not doing it. Then I feel guilty and angry for asking for his help.

My biggest fear when I was pregnant was growing to resent my partner and it’s starting to happen. I give him so much down time when he is home from work. But I’m stuck at home all day with our baby. I love my baby I really do but he is a newborn and I’m struggling. I’m exhausted and I’m medicated due to my mental health. I feel completely alone in this and I don’t know what to do.

I have a really supportive family but they live an hour and a half from us and I feel guilty for constantly needing their help. They are using so much gas to come help me. They are draining their accounts to pay for things for the baby.

What do I do? I’m already in therapy. I already am medicated and I don’t feel like it’s helping. So what do I do?[/quote]

You have him small tasks?  He is your husband and a grown man!  Imperfect women who demand a perfect man leads to divorce.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics