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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a sexless marriage (I'm the xW, xH did not want sex with me). At the time, I would have settled for 2x a month, even though I would have preferred 2-3x a week.

Now, I think it's less about frequency and more about enthusiasm. I never want to be in a relationship where I have to issue an ultimatum for a minimum. I want someone who *wants* to have sex with me. If I have to negotiate, it's already over, let's just move on and sleep with other people.

Once per week where everyone is enthusiastic and wants to be there is better than 3 times per week where the other person would rather be doing anything else.[/quote]

I agree with you.  
My experience too is that not having sex also comes with not otherwise touching, flirting, or making each other laugh.

I don’t know that I need a certain amount of intercourse, but I do need a general feeling that we are in a romantic/sexual relationship in order to feel happy in my marriage.  [/quote]

I also agree with the PP. [/quote]

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