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[quote=Anonymous]It's not a binary choice of settling or not settling. You need to think about what specific traits are important to you, and select for those traits while letting go of the things that aren't as important. Nobody is going to be 100% perfect, so you need to choose where to put your attention. I'd advise letting go of superficial ideals like looks, powerful career, or excitement. Look for traits like honesty, respect, dependability, and fairness. That may look like "settling", but it's really just being deliberate about what you want. Of course, your choices may be different from mine - the point is to make your choices, whatever they are. Once you make your choice, don't think of it as settling - that mindset is a sure path to misery. Focus on the reasons you are choosing this person. [/quote]
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