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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A big problem here is that you've normalized it for all the kids but she's the oldest and right on the cusp of puberty. So whether you put her in a bathing suit now or wait until she shows signs of puberty, you are still putting her in the position of having to cover up due to her body changing. Think of the message it's going to send to her when that happens, especially when her cousins' bodies will apparently still be deemed ok to be seen.

This is why they should all be in suits every time. It's an equalizer.

Also kids in 2nd/3rd grade definitely talk about butts and penises, so having those 7 year old boys running around naked could be creating some confusion for you DD and those boys even if none of them are in puberty yet. There will come a day when it's just straight up weird that these boys are running around with their penises out around family and that day is way sooner than you or their parents seem to think.[/quote]

I think the parent/mom was sending OP a message.[/quote]

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