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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found out my mother died on Facebook. Siblings can be very hurtful and I assure you it comes from jealousy. When we get older our life is a kaleidoscope of every decision we made and how we treated other people. I don’t have empathy for any of them. [/quote]

Thank you, and sorry for your loss.

It’s been years of asking myself why were they escalating the behavior. The level of secrecy and exclusion in a family got to the point of cruelty. [/quote]

18:14 here. 
In my case it’s systemic mental illness and a lifetime of dysfunction. There is schizophrenia, narcissist personality disorders, and things beyond my pay grade. It has most likely been fueled by one or both parents or a conspiracy loving sibling. In sick families someone needs to be the bad guy or scapegoat. Evaluate how you got wounded from this situation and heal from it and become the best version of yourself that you can be. My mother’s favorite child became one of the sickest in our large family probably because of all the problems my mother had. If you really want to drill down on this find a trauma informed therapist. There were probably signs along the way that you dismissed or did not see.

I genuinely wish you peace. Plan on how you wish to move forward. Research the best way to get help (you need it and it’s out there).
Look for the joy around you.

Just breathe. Everything WILL work out. [/quote]

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