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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he has no history of abusing you I think you are overreacting.   Men are wired to be a little violent.   Restraining you on one occasion if never repeated is really not such a big deal.   You can all scream as much as you like but from a male perspective, I think you need to cool it.[/quote]

You do yourself a disservice when you expect so little of yourself. That, and you're an asshole.[/quote]

NP. OP has told a one-sided story and has emphasized the physicality of the episode. But it seems like the husband was [b]not being offensively aggressive [/b]but was insisting that they keep working on their disagreement. It was a bad approach and shouldn't have been done, but this was different from hitting a spouse, etc.  He isn't necessarily an abuser or remotely similar to wife beaters. [/quote]

I think the OP gets to decide that, don't you? In other words, the person being pinned, unable to move, and overpowered physically gets to decide if it's "offensively aggressive." Nice deflection and choice of words by the way.[/quote]

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