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Reply to "Q to the ladies: What gets you turned on?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Choreplay is king. Do some chores so that I am not tired and resentful of you when we get in bed. If I am I not cussing you out in my mind you have a better chance of getting laid. [/quote] I think that some men think this means that women literally get aroused by watching men do chores. It’s more like having the chores done means that I can get into a headspace to get aroused if we start kissing and touching. [/quote] What if the guy always did his share of the chores? Would the woman's libido always be high(er)? I have been married twice, and lived with another woman. I always split the chores in a mutually agreed upon way. I never noticed any correlation between completing a household task and my partner's horniness.[/quote] How about partnerplay not choreplay because the chores arent the only thing on most women's plates. I manage the laundry, calendar, any and all sign-ups/papers/forms/documents, all volunteering, school-related stuff, camps, daycare needs, clothing, grocery shopping, meal planning, short term and moderate long term planning, doctors appointments (higher medical needs for both kids). My husband handles sports practices, daycare pickup, and 10 year plus planning which is difficult to do if you dont know whats happening in year 1-9. So a toilet and some vacuuming along the way isnt really moving the needle. [/quote]
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