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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Choreplay is king. Do some chores so that I am not tired and resentful of you when we get in bed. If I am I not cussing you out in my mind you have a better chance of getting laid. [/quote]

I think that some men think this means that women literally get aroused by watching men do chores.

It’s more like having the chores done means that I can get into a headspace to get aroused if we start kissing and touching.  [/quote]

What if the guy always did his share of the chores? Would the woman's libido always be high(er)?

I have been married twice, and lived with another woman. I always split the chores in a mutually agreed upon way. I never noticed any correlation between completing a household task and my partner's horniness.[/quote]

As others have said, it’s not that our libido (as in actual drive) changes with your doing chores, or that we get wet watching you vacuum… it’s that if you aren’t doing it then we are, and then we are exhausted and resentful when we get to bed. And many of us need to be in a good mental space to want sex.  Taking a bit of the load off and making us appreciate you makes room for that headspace. [/quote]

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