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[quote=Anonymous]I think some of these things are just like getting to baseline. Few women can get in the mood if their mind is on the million things they need to do and they are exhausted. That is just one of those things that men don’t get because they are different. So having a partner and not being overloaded is necessary but not sufficient. Once that foundation is there then the other stuff actually makes you feel aroused. For me it’s mostly words and expressions that I look really good etc. I like to feel desirable and not just a means to an organism.

I still remember a conversation with my husband when he asked what it would take for me to be in the mood more and I basically explained the above and he was like…I was thinking a foot rub? And that’s the fundamental problem. You can’t solve my overwhelm or exhaustion with a foot rub.

I think he’s trying but honestly the thing that’s helped the most is probably just the kids getting older and having a little breathing room to feel like myself again.[/quote]

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