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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few months ago, I found love on Hinge. Here is what helped:

1. On the profile, I specified exactly what and who I’m looking for - including “love” and “emotionally available man”.

2. I decided not to like a man’s profile first and meet with only those who initiate quickly and actively and are looking for a serious relationship and demonstrate a lot of interest for me specifically.

3. After creating a profile, I went on a long trip, coming back only in a month. My boyfriend ended up waiting for more than a month to meet with me and continued pursuing me even after I told him that I’m going to give a chance to another man first (that was because another man put even more efforts in pursuing me). [/quote]

In other words with 3., you made him jump through hoops and he was neurotic enough to put up with it.[/quote]
Oh no, he was just really interested and persistent. He is actually very balanced, steady, and knows very well what he wants in a relationship. Unlike two other men who started texting me multiple times a day over my trip, he asked if we can talk over the phone, and I said I’ll see if I have time during the trip, and he wished me a good trip and then didn’t text me for nearly 3 weeks.

For that reason, I was moving forward with a man who in the meantime sent me hundreds of messages and nearly planned the rest of his life with me. When my now boyfriend texted me again, I told him that I’m going to give a chance to another man first because he is making a lot of efforts. We had a nice conversation over several days, and after seeing that I’d made up my mind, he invited me to meet as friends.

After 3 days with another man, I knew that I don’t want to continue with him and texted my now boyfriend saying that I’d like to meet for something easy like coffee and walk, and we met during lunch break. As we walked, he asked what I think about us, and I said: “We can meet one more time”, and he replied: “One more time? Many more times!” - and it’s been great since then. [/quote]

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