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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Unless you’ve been widowed, working and holding your kids lives together, you have zero grounds for judgement.

And if you’re judging, step your behind up and offer to help with concrete items/plans the next time you have a prematurely widowed parent appear in your world. Also keep an eye out for close friends who suddenly think she’s about to husband poach.

It is a miserable place to be.[/quote]

Actually the judgment has nothing to do with her being a widow. It's with her choice of destination. There's lots of vacations a.person could pick that don't strongly imply excessive drinking, gambling, and casual hook ups. And OPs advocating for this can be judged as well.  I wouldn't expect any spouse who cares about their marriage would want their spouse to go on a guys trip or girls trip to Vegas without them[/quote]

A pp again.

Note: she’s attending a concert. Flights and hotel are often less in LV than other venues. Even if the cheap buffets are things of the past.

It wouldn’t be my personal destination choice. However, a girl friend she can be herself with and an easy trip (direct flight,etc.) is not for me to judge. My husband would be surprised if I took off to LV with friends, but he’d never doubt I’d be unfaithful. You are throwing your own issues into this. Or trolling.

If the widow chooses to live it up, not your place to judge.[/quote]

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