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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am in my late 40s now so most of my peers married nearly 20 years ago. Even back then, the method of inviting to the shower and not the wedding was a well known gift grab technique. It's tacky and translates to being good enough to give me a gift but not for the cost of the plate. I would decline and not send a gift. "Congratulations" when you see her is good enough.[/quote] Same, except I’m early 50s. Totally agree you don’t contribute to the gift grab when this happens. I never understood the sentiment you see on this thread that you “politely decline the shower and send a gift.” No. Just politely decline in a timely way. [/quote]
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