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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I got into a huge fight today (first one in months) and now I’m wondering who’s being unreasonable.

One of my old male college friends invited me to fly with him to attend our mutual female friend’s wedding. We’ve all known each other forever and there has never been anything romantic between us. It’s a short trip (about a 2-hour flight) and honestly just seemed practical/convenient to coordinate travel together.

My husband is furious about it and says he doesn’t want me to travel with my friend. I said he could come if he wanted, but he dislikes my friend, and says no. Today he yelled at me about it in front of our 6 year old daughter, which upset her so much she started crying. That bothered me more than the argument itself.

I told him [b]I understand why he may feel uncomfortable[/b] and I’m sorry about that, but the ticket is already booked and I truly don’t feel like I’m doing anything wrong. I also don’t want to miss my friend’s wedding over this.

Would this bother other men here? Am I being insensitive, or is my husband overreacting?[/quote]

Why? Because he doesn't like or trust this guy? I'm trying to figure out why your husband would be uncomfortable about it. Also, if you knew he would be uncomfortable about it then it was kind of a crappy thing for you to just book it. To be clear, I think your husband is being both stupid and rude but it sounds like maybe you did something you knew would make him mad?[/quote]

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