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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]it is OP and her husband's business if taking care of SIL's kids leads to FIL's poor health or worse and their kids don't get to have a relationship with her. some of you sound like it is fair for SIL to work him to death so she can have the life she wants.[/quote] [b]So he is a hostage? He is mentally retarded[/b]?[/quote] Does he have to be in order for someone to be looking out for his welfare? FIL is so tired that he is falling asleep while watching the children he is having symptoms of stress or heart disease. . There is also another baby on the way so there will be a temptation by SIL#1 to add to FIL's sitting duties when they should be reduced due to his increasing health issues and advancing age. I think OP and her husband are right to speak up. Compared to the SILs and FIL, they are the only ones who are independent enough to objectively evaluate the situation. [/quote]
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