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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When did this all start? Was she difficult when she was younger (e.g, 4-6)? [/quote] It has never been this bad but I think that’s related to the age. She wants to break away but she’s not ready to yet either. When she was that age, there were signs. Examples… I remember once I decided to surprise her with a mommy/daughter date after school to go out and get ice cream after school and she had a complete over the top melt down, because it was not the routine. And once, when by suggestion of her teacher, I bought her a journal for her to practice writing and reading, and I wrote an encouraging note in the journal, it led to a 3 hour meltdown. She hates hugs, or any affection, and never let anyone hold her hand. And she always pushed people away (literally told them to go away) when she felt like they set limits, asked questions (like are you hungry? Do you want a snack?) or were too controlling- babysitters, grandparents, and other caregivers.[/quote] So sorry, OP. If family therapy doesn’t work, I would seriously consider a strict boarding school where they are trained to deal with this, if you can afford it. [/quote] NP here. Do you know of schools that do this? [/quote] I think the answer is: no. [/quote]
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