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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Larlo did nothing wrong. Larla needs to learn how to communicate better and understand the game better. It is possible for a guy to fall for you hard after a few dates and be exclusive without having to discuss it - but Larla would have known if that was the case. If you are still just seeing each other once a week, he is not that into you (yet). Also if Larla reflects, she is probably operating more out of pride than actually assessing whether she likes Larlo. [/quote] Larla says it’s not about falling for someone that early on, or pride. It’s more that a lack of disclosure shows a difference in values, as she wouldn’t sleep with two men simultaneously, or would be upfront about as as she believes it’s important to be upfront so the other person can make a decision. [/quote] Larla has a long painful road ahead of her. She needs to learn to actually ask for what she wants instead of assuming her preferences are the only moral default and everyone should read her mind. [/quote]
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