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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I don't feel old, and I know that mid-30's is pretty typical to have a first child around here. DH resents me for making him wait so long. He has always wanted a child, and I have been ambivalent for years. He now feels that we're too old, but still wants to proceed. I am only now starting to feel ready, whereas before I was not ready at all. But now that I am ready, it stresses me out to hear that I'm too old.[/quote] What a jerk ("D"H, not you). Of all the directions you don't need crap about your age, from your SPOUSE? On one hand, yeah, past 35 is AMA, blah blah bad things bad bad scary fearmongering. OTOH, you weren't ready then and you are now, and if there's anywhere in the world where the medical establishment knows how to handle and the culture won't blink at a mid-30s pregnant woman, it's a major American city like DC. What does he think you all are "too old" for? Does he know any other couples with kids? [/quote]
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