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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Girlfriend, if you don't have the energy now as a childless couple, I doubt you will ever have more than one.  If you are this tired now you might also want to consider how you are going to handle the real exhaustion that comes from taking care of a small child.  We are TTC #2 now and the reality is if this is a priority, you make the time for it and suck it up.  You're currently childless - why can't you just have sex first thing when you get home?  [/quote]

I know I can only handle one child.  I am not a very high energy person.  Next cycle we need to plan better, get way more sleep so I have more energy when I come home.  Right when I come home is when I have the least energy--drained from the workday.  I need an hour to recharge, and then eat dinner, and then I have a bit more energy.  Sex is also quite painful for me, so this is a factor also.  Gyn has not been of any help with that problem.[/quote]

Lube?  Try pre-seed.  What kind of jobs do you guys do?  Why are you so low-energy?  Could their be dietary/fitness issues at play?  Not trying to be snarky at all, but you may want to think these things through a bit.  We changed a lot of our health habits after having a child.  They are a huge demand on your time and energy and saying "mommy is too tired" just doesn't work.  [/quote]

OP here.  I got tons of bloodwork done in the last few months to prepare for TTC.  They found nothing.  I am just a low energy person.  Always have been.  I need 9 solid hours of sleep to feel good, otherwise I feel tired and dragging.  [b]DH has a very high stress, 80 hour per week job[/b], my job is a normal job but it tires me out--very busy.[/quote]

Considering that a week consists only of 164 hours and your DH works nearly 50% of those hours and presumably sleeps another 40% of the rest of those hours, hear me now and believe me later when I tell you that YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS HAVING CHILDREN.[/quote]

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