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[quote=Anonymous]The reality is that you will drift further and further apart if you don't make time to see her. That's just how it goes. Yes, friendships have seasons and change over time, but they require reciprocal effort to maintain. What that looks depends on each of you, and it will change as you move through the seasons of life. But there has to be some effort on both sides for a friendship to survive. If you care about her as a friend and don't want to lose her as you say, then you make it a priority to see her when you can. It doesn't have to mean going on a vacation together. But not returning text messages or calls, or not finding one a couple of hours every month or so to have dinner (or whatever) sends a message. The message is that you don't value the friendship very much. At some point she'll stop reaching out to you if this keeps up.[/quote]
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