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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand, but does your mom know who you are? If so, I can't imagine not doing a birthday celebration with all her kids. I'd love to see my kids all at one time, though I understand saying no to gatherings every time they visit.

A birthday, however, is different. Can't you ask sibling to bring a cake, and show up to eat it and take a family picture, and leave after 45 minutes, while they keep visiting?

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DP. As the primary with my mom, my siblings pretty much don't have a relationship with our mom at this point. They don't live in the same city, have jobs and kids and life and our mom can't really talk on the phone well anymore. So if I am not facilitating the relationship there would be none. And now when they come to town they want me to guide the whole thing. They do not want one on one time with her because they don't have a relationship with her where you just pick up and start talking. I have facilitated for years. But I am tired and our mom only takes more and more out of me as she gets older. And yes, I am exhausted, burned out, and resentful.

I feel for you, OP.[/quote]

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