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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my experience female avoidants are friendly, flirty, curious about you, intelligent and social. They also have shallow friendships, few long-term relationships (unless they are low maintenance), rarely overshare and tend to cheat or leave when things become moderately challenging. I would not do it again.[/quote] This was me to a T. I’ve had lots and lots of therapy and managed to turn my life around and start some really deep and intimate relationships. I don’t think I realized how lonely I was until I started opening myself up and how satisfying a relationship can be when you are vulnerable with each other. OTOH, I am a master at small talk, genuinely enjoy it and am the life of a party. It makes me great at my job, which entails building relationships. I think for me, if I was the way I was before and you wanted a relationship with me, calling out my avoidance would be a big factor. G’luck![/quote]
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