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[quote=Anonymous]Dh and I have been together for 27 years.

I think one of the reasons we have a strong marriage is because we want our partner to be as happy as we are. We do fight here and there, but we work really hard to hear what the other person is saying and to see their side. I’ve had to change some things about myself for my dh and he’s done it for me. No, we do not change everything, but we do as much as we can. And some things we have learned to let go.

I don’t think you’re asking a lot of him. A 5 second text is a very small ask. And as the one who always prepares dinner, this would bother me also.

And his diagnosis should not be an excuse. I have ADHD and I’ve had to work harder at things that come easily to others. I don’t just throw in the towel. Especially if it’s something my dh has repeatedly said he needs.

I’m not sure how to get through to your dh. Maybe write him a letter with pen and paper?

If you don’t think you can get him to see your side and change, then you start a list of his good qualities to remind you why you love him. If there aren’t that many to list, well…time for some deeper thinking if you know what I mean. [/quote]

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