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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Divorce is imminent and we have 2 young kids (5 & 7). DH plans to move to another state (2 hour flight)/ move away from our kids. He is not having an affair (really). I don’t get it and cannot understand this at all. Does he not understand the implications of this?[/quote] Nothing to understand other than he only cares about himself and only puts himself (and possibly his career work) first. Not his children. Not his wife or marriage or being a well rounded person. He is consistently making decisions and behaving than way: What is best and easiest for me, and me only. That is all that is going on now, before and in the future. Your lawyer has likely seen this self-centered divorced parent many times before. Use it for your negotiations and strategy—ask for what you want, but in a way that it makes his life easier. And he will take it. [/quote]
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