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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have seen many a divorces in private schools and a few with one parent working for the school.  I have never heard of the school getting involved in the way you described.  Generally it plays out like any divorce with kids involved.  Parents split time with kids and just don't engage with each other.  Never heard of a school expelling kids to punish the other parent... it would go against their own interests unless that parent was so disruptive to the school on their own and the school no longer wanted to deal with that level of disruption.  So maybe your scenario could happen if the other parent showed up unexpectedly and caused scenes on a regular basis, but I think they would press trespassing charges long before removing the students.

I do find it is mild common for someone getting divorced tend to lack self awareness and create extreme stories in their heads...[/quote]

People getting divorced lack self awareness? Sure, in some cases. And in others maybe one person’s lack is what’s basically driving the divorce. As well as married and single people. Frankly, it seems to be common. (In these forums alone.) Maybe OP or their people have met others who have gone through something like this, making OP’s question not an example of them creating “extreme stories in their heads”. Isn’t that what victim-shamers say to distract and shift blame? Maybe you haven’t seen it. Good for you. That doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Private schools are for-profit and have plenty of demand in major urban areas. Maybe OP doesn’t have to be disruptive. Maybe it’s just easier to keep the employee parent and give the kid’s spot to a new applicant. It sounds like that’s what it was before the kid came along. Efficiency and all that[/quote]

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