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[quote=Anonymous]You never get over the betrayal, but you can get past it. I figured out that I loved her more than I loved myself and that set me up to be taken for granted. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. It shifted my perspective from powerless victim who needs control to feel safe to feeling safe because I decide what is acceptable in my world. It hasn’t been easy and I am still a work in progress, but I imagine the man I want to be, see the actions he would take to earn my respect and make decisions as he would. I do value and respect myself more and it has attracted better people into my life. [/quote]
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