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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]+1 for domestic violence center You don't need a last straw. You just need a decision. [/quote] This. What’s the hold up? [/quote] Have some compassion. She has kids that she's scared will be left with him 50% of the time, and either has no money of her own or her husband exerts such control that she can't freely spend her own money.[/quote] But he WILL end up with them 50% of the time, more than likely. I don’t say this to be crass, but OP, do you have any paper trail of the abuse? You really need to speak with a lawyer. A consult is free. If you’re going to borrow money from family, this is where you start. You need to understand your options, and also your realities. I don’t say this to scare you, but to inform you. Do you work and have your own income? Do you have a place to stay as soon as your STBX is served? I think the most important thing is realizing that it’s very possible he WILL have the children a percentage of time, especially if you can’t provide documented proof of the abuse. [/quote]
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