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[quote=Anonymous]Borrow money and meet with two lawyers. Talk to a domestic violence agency if this is part of the issue. Get a plan. Find a place to live. Sign papers on a lease. Find out from HR what paperwork you need to change the account where your paycheck goes to and figure out the timing so you can have your next paycheck go to your new account as soon as you file and move. Find out from the lawyer if you can take half the money you hold in savings the day you leave. Turn off tracking on your phone while you meet with lawyers, look at places to live, etc. Get copies of all your financial stuff. Start moving stuff he won’t notice to your relatives or a friend (birth certificates, passports, jewelry, etc). Get a credit card just in your name and use your family member’s mailing address. There is all kinds of stuff you can probably do if you are able to leave the house to run errands, visit family, etc.[/quote]
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