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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's nothing wrong with having faith, or practicing a faith. It's okay to believe in God, or to want to be a dedicated spouse and a parent. That's an honorable goal. Other people find those things very enriching. They are allowed to think differently from you, OP. Seems to me you're being introduced to the daughter you had all along but refused to get to know, OP. You thought you could design her your way. Nope. She can't fit the mold you chose for her and expected her to inhabit for the next 60 years. She can't hold up the pretense of the life you tried to design for her -- aka your life. She doesn't want to be a carbon copy of you, so that you can have bragging rights that you got her to fit some mold. She's going to be herself, and good for her.[/quote]

Good for her what?  She wants no career or even a job and thinks a man is her plan?

I doubt OP would care if she became a SAHM after working several years and her and spouse collectively decided it was a good idea.

I swear DCUM is just rife with people who give weird often shitty advice because their own situation is nothing like it.[/quote]

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